It’s strange what being the parent of a child with a rare, life-threatening or debilitating genetic disorder can do to a person. There’s even a movie out right now about it – “Extraordinary Measures”, with Harrison Ford and that other guy from the “George of the Jungle” movie my kids still like to watch. You’ve probably seen the previews; it’s about a dad who quits his job to partner with a scientist and push the science to develop a life-saving treatment for the disease. Oh yeah – it’s a true story.
Its’ also the kind of story that people like me look at and think “Wow! That’s just like what we go through with EDS.” Haven’t actually seen it yet, but that is actually what I think. That is actually what I hope for someday.
Long before the movie was made, families like this have been doing extraordinary things in their quests to find treatments and cures for their children; whether to save their lives or at least improve the quality of what life they have left. And long after the movie is forgotten, the newly inducted members of this ever-growing group of parents will continue to lie awake at night wondering which medical journal, which doctor, which article has the missing key to their child’s disease. They will feel driven to do it; they will feel compelled to do it, and they will feel heart breaking guilt when they do not succeed.
One thing you find yourself doing, especially now that the internet has exploded with untold treasures of medical research just waiting to be mined, is sifting through long, wordy and usually incomprehensible research articles that may contain even the tiniest connection to your child’s disease. Every once in a while, if you’re very lucky, you may even see a story of someone with the disease on T.V., or a doctor testing a new treatment which holds promising possibilities.
That’s when your mind starts to whirl, flying through every scrap of information you’ve ever memorized, looking for the elusive missing pieces. That’s when you get a little more desperate than usual (you’re always desperate), which is what happened to me a few weeks ago.
In December, I saw a story on 60 Minutes about breakthroughs in a field called “Regenerative Medicine” in which doctors use different methods to trick the body into growing or repairing missing or damaged tissue. My heart pounded in my throat as I watched – was I really hearing and seeing what I thought I was? Could this be true? I imagined all sorts of implications for my child and the millions like him around the world. I knew my very basic knowledge of cell formation was too limited to know if this could be for us or not. So I did what any other parent of a child with a rare genetic disease would do: I hopped on the internet.
For about three days I scoured websites, located all major research institutions in the U.S. exploring this field, AND – talk about hitting the jackpot – I found the emails of several of the doctors featured in the story!! (It’s not that hard, really). So, again, I did what any self-respecting-parent-of-a-child-with-a-rare-genetic-disease would do – I sent out about ten emails to prominent doctors at prestigious institutions – I was making cold-calls (or whatever it’s called for emails).
I came to my senses a couple of weeks later when I had received no replies and remembered that there are M-I-L-L-I-O-N-S of families going though the same thing as me, and surely no less than two-thirds had probably done equally as desperate things. More than likely, the servers at those hospitals had crashed from the influx of emails from parents like me. Oh well, at least I’d taken a shot at it, right?
But then . . . out of nowhere – I got an email response from a vascular surgeon who works with the Institute for Regenerative Medicine in Pittsburgh. HOLY COW! I skimmed it faster than my mind could read – looking for key words, like “possibility” and “hope” or “promising potential“, but found none.
The email essentially said that as of right now there are no applications for the treatment in Ehlers Danlos patients, and they simply didn’t know about the future. And then he told me how to take care of a child with vascular Ehlers-Danlos syndrome; at least he was covering his bases. So – I moved on, and threw myself into the Chase Giving Challenge on FB and pretty much forgot all about the other emails.
But today, when I opened my inbox, there was an email I thought was from another EDS patient I’d been told was going to contact me. I opened it quickly, started skimming, and soon realized that – OH MY GOD – (OMG is not adequate in this situation!) it was a reply to the email I’d sent to the doctor on whom the majority of the 60 Minutes story was focused.
Heart racing, adrenaline pumping, I backed up and started re-reading; actually reading this time. O.k. – it was from his associate – he was helping respond to emails – they were very backed up after the show – just like I thought – blah, blah, blah – and then, the meat of it. Which I’ve copied for you here:
“Re your specific inquiry…
1. None of Dr. Badylak’s research has specifically addressed your area of interest
2. While ECM shows substantial promise to repair damaged tissue, I do not envision that it would be effective in reversing the root cause of your son’s affliction
3. ECM and tissue engineering in general, offer promise to treat tissue defects, but the use of such procedures would require surgical interventions.”
The rest was “thank you for your interest”, “blah, blah, blah”, “etcetera, etcetera,” – balloon popping . . . .bubble bursting . . . . . eyes getting teary . . . heart breaking all over again.
Where the hell is my coffee?
I have to go to work now.
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